Love is indeed a very "chemistry" substance in the world. To be more detail, love is actually related to the terms "feeling." The reason ones fall in love with ones' loved partner is he or she has a strong feeling of deep affection for the person. In other words, love is an uncontrollable, unstable and passive thing. That is why it is chemistry. Women in different ages define love differently;
Mrs. A- A forty-five-year-old, Chinese married woman
Mrs. A- A forty-five-year-old, Chinese married woman
Child : Mum, why daddy always buying things from the auntie in her store? The goods s are very expensive, somemore her store is quite far away from where we stay.Ican see that he likes the ladyboss very much. Gosh! I hate dad! Why don't he satisfied with what he already had now? A nice and caring wife is always beside him. (Stop Flirting! )
Mrs. A: I don't care. It is so hard to control him to stop loving the lady. And for me, my responsibility to be his wife has fulfilled. My dream to deliver my own child has come true. Now, I would rather love my own child rather than loving my husband. (I decided to be his wife at that time not out of love)
Miss B- A thirty-three-year-old career woman
Mrs. A: I don't care. It is so hard to control him to stop loving the lady. And for me, my responsibility to be his wife has fulfilled. My dream to deliver my own child has come true. Now, I would rather love my own child rather than loving my husband. (I decided to be his wife at that time not out of love)
Miss B- A thirty-three-year-old career woman
Reporter: Do you believe in love?
Miss B : No. For me, love is an unfaithful thing. If I contributed my heart and soul for a guy, i could not 100% get his love for me. If he loves me now, doesn't mean that he would not flirt with other gal. It's unworthy to invest our life and happiness to a man.
Miss C and Miss D- Both are twenty-five
(Venue: Starbucks)
Miss C (nurse): I miss Kel so much..He is now still in US to complete his master in Accounting. I didn't receive his call for a few weeks. I'd already told him in our last call that I pregnanted. What shall I do now? I dare not tell my parents about this.
Miss D (clubber): Don't be silly my dear.. Kel won't be back here at this moment. Worse still, he might be flirting with another gal in US. I think you should opt for abortion before your parents know it.
Miss C : No, I think that you have wronged understand him. He is different from the guys that you meet in nightclubs. We just couldn't help to live without one of us. He'd been in tears before boarding. And, we'd sex out of love, and not like what you think.
Miss D : Plz don't be naive my dear. The fact that he stops calling you has proved what type of guy he is. Love doesn't last forever. Men choose different types of girls for the sake of sex. For me, I just want to have the experience of falling in love and ends it fast. Life is wonderful with different guys appear in your life.
So, how will you define love ? Do you believe in love? The contexts above have roughly shown women's perceptions on the interpretation of love. There are also other circumstances that affect different perceptions of love.
Miss B : No. For me, love is an unfaithful thing. If I contributed my heart and soul for a guy, i could not 100% get his love for me. If he loves me now, doesn't mean that he would not flirt with other gal. It's unworthy to invest our life and happiness to a man.
Miss C and Miss D- Both are twenty-five
(Venue: Starbucks)
Miss C (nurse): I miss Kel so much..He is now still in US to complete his master in Accounting. I didn't receive his call for a few weeks. I'd already told him in our last call that I pregnanted. What shall I do now? I dare not tell my parents about this.
Miss D (clubber): Don't be silly my dear.. Kel won't be back here at this moment. Worse still, he might be flirting with another gal in US. I think you should opt for abortion before your parents know it.
Miss C : No, I think that you have wronged understand him. He is different from the guys that you meet in nightclubs. We just couldn't help to live without one of us. He'd been in tears before boarding. And, we'd sex out of love, and not like what you think.
Miss D : Plz don't be naive my dear. The fact that he stops calling you has proved what type of guy he is. Love doesn't last forever. Men choose different types of girls for the sake of sex. For me, I just want to have the experience of falling in love and ends it fast. Life is wonderful with different guys appear in your life.
So, how will you define love ? Do you believe in love? The contexts above have roughly shown women's perceptions on the interpretation of love. There are also other circumstances that affect different perceptions of love.
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Although i m still 19 yrs old, i can see d clearly difference of d women in 20's, 30's n 40's in ur post. I think tat i will group myself into 30's, Mrs B. Being as 20's, i mayb influenced by dramas thinking that wat Mrs B's opinion. Love, i m not quite familiar with it, juz thinking that 20's are silly. Mayb u will say bcoz i havent found my true love. I still think tat dun let love control us. Let we control it, not falling in the traps setted by love. Instead, being clear in mind for every steps we step in, leaving d best memories in our life. Anyway, congratulates tat ur blog had being created. As d 1st one to leave d comment, hope to read ur next post. Keep it up! Really interesting!
Although i m still 19 yrs old, i can see d clearly difference of d women in 20's, 30's n 40's in ur post. I think tat i will group myself into 30's, Mrs B. Being as 20's, i mayb influenced by dramas thinking that wat Mrs B's opinion. Love, i m not quite familiar with it, juz thinking that 20's are silly. Mayb u will say bcoz i havent found my true love. I still think tat dun let love control us. Let we control it, not falling in the traps setted by love. Instead, being clear in mind for every steps we step in, leaving d best memories in our life. Anyway, congratulates tat ur blog had being created. As d 1st one to leave d comment, hope to read ur next post. Keep it up! Really interesting!
Love is compliacted n unpredictable.. like you said, we cant control it. it came suddenly n go off suddenly. different age has different opinion about love but one similarity is they have truly loved someone. we cant predict what our life will be in the future but the most important is how we enjoy and cherish our present time
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love is only part of our lives but its not everything. without love, life is nothing. however, never love anyone more thn u love yrself as ur the master of ur life but not a slave of love for someone. nah this is wat i learnt fr the past relationship.. cheerish urself oni ur loved one will be cherished. love is unpredictable, as such, i ll nvr wanna 'plan' whatsoever future but let the future takes its own decision... i love my current bf now but this time i believe that when he's mine, he's mine... when hes not mine; i'll let go willingly. wat for torture each other? geez! cheers lady! nvr depend on any guys! not all guys are trustable... and again, not all guys are untrustable... but.. we nvr know until the time comes... geez... cant wait for see ur new post! muax
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