Thursday, November 20, 2008

Women in 20s, 30s & 40s


















Love is indeed a very "chemistry" substance in the world. To be more detail, love is actually related to the terms "feeling." The reason ones fall in love with ones' loved partner is he or she has a strong feeling of deep affection for the person. In other words, love is an uncontrollable, unstable and passive thing. That is why it is chemistry. Women in different ages define love differently;


Mrs. A- A forty-five-year-old, Chinese married woman
Child : Mum, why daddy always buying things from the auntie in her store? The goods s are very expensive, somemore her store is quite far away from where we stay.Ican see that he likes the ladyboss very much. Gosh! I hate dad! Why don't he satisfied with what he already had now? A nice and caring wife is always beside him. (Stop Flirting! )

Mrs. A: I don't care. It is so hard to control him to stop loving the lady. And for me, my responsibility to be his wife has fulfilled. My dream to deliver my own child has come true. Now, I would rather love my own child rather than loving my husband. (I decided to be his wife at that time not out of love)


Miss B- A thirty-three-year-old career woman
Reporter: Do you believe in love?

Miss B : No. For me, love is an unfaithful thing. If I contributed my heart and soul for a guy, i could not 100% get his love for me. If he loves me now, doesn't mean that he would not flirt with other gal. It's unworthy to invest our life and happiness to a man.


Miss C and Miss D- Both are twenty-five

(Venue: Starbucks)

Miss C (nurse): I miss Kel so much..He is now still in US to complete his master in Accounting. I didn't receive his call for a few weeks. I'd already told him in our last call that I pregnanted. What shall I do now? I dare not tell my parents about this.

Miss D (clubber): Don't be silly my dear.. Kel won't be back here at this moment. Worse still, he might be flirting with another gal in US. I think you should opt for abortion before your parents know it.

Miss C : No, I think that you have wronged understand him. He is different from the guys that you meet in nightclubs. We just couldn't help to live without one of us. He'd been in tears before boarding. And, we'd sex out of love, and not like what you think.

Miss D : Plz don't be naive my dear. The fact that he stops calling you has proved what type of guy he is. Love doesn't last forever. Men choose different types of girls for the sake of sex. For me, I just want to have the experience of falling in love and ends it fast. Life is wonderful with different guys appear in your life.


So, how will you define love ? Do you believe in love? The contexts above have roughly shown women's perceptions on the interpretation of love. There are also other circumstances that affect different perceptions of love.